50 Shades of Grey – What Could YOU Learn?

Last updated on 2 september 2017 We’ve all heard of the 50 Shades of Grey books, right? That British writer woman that wrote the raunchy book that was basically all about sex? Not just normal sex either – (whispers) crazy sex!

What Can We Learn from 50 Shades of Grey?

Yes it might be smut for women, but is there something underneath all the fluff and hype (and endless damp panties) to make 50 Shades of Grey that little bit more interesting for lusting women all over the world? Well guys, if you’ve never read it, you should. And that goes for the women too.

We can all learn a thing or two from 50 Shades.

The screwed up relationship between Christian Grey and Ana may seem a little “out there” but aren’t all of our relationships that little bit dysfunctional, even if not quite nearly as arousing?

One of the most important thing that 50 Shades of Grey focuses on is foreplay which is something we could all do with learning about, to be honest. Guys don’t spend enough time on foreplay. Women put too much emphasis on it. There seems to be a fine line and one that many of us can’t seem to get right.

Taking the time to seduce your woman will most definitely earn you brownie points guys, and it will probably make her come to climax if you struggle to manage this naturally. We aren’t saying she’s faking it but if she’s making all the right noises yet still appears to be as dry as a bone, there is a good chance that something isn’t working for her. That’s a great thing that we can learn from the 50 Shades book.

Christian Grey is educated when it comes to sex. He knows about periods and pubic hair, contraception, and orgasms. He knew everything he needed to know to have a successful sex life that, in the end, worked out for them both. If you are not clued up about sex, it’s time to start reading. Sometimes women bleed. Sometimes they make love puff noises from down there. Sometimes their foot slips and they accidentally knee you in your special place. The more you educate yourself, the better a lover you will be. Another lesson learned from 50 Shades of Grey!

Negotiation is a key part of this book and with negotiation comes compromise. This is definitely a lesson well learned in the 50 Shades books. Ana definitely compromises in her love for Christian, and he definitely lets her win a battle or two. This goes for in the bedroom and out of the bedroom – learn this lesson both guys and girls. The sooner you do, the sooner you will all get along.

Of course, above all else there is one massive thing that we can learn and use from the 50 Shades of Grey books – Christian respects Ana. He may cause her physical pain and even mental torment from time to time, but she does enjoy it in some part and at the end of it all, he always respects her. He is a gentleman about things too – opening doors for her and carries her bags and he even makes the effort to treat her from time to time. This is a lesson that all guys should learn, and girls should learn to expect from a guy too: R-E-S-P-E-C-T!