Tips for First Time Anal Sex

Anal sex can be an intimidating thing; although a lot of people profess to be interested in doing it, not so many actually go through with it.

 Here’s some tips for making your first time (1excuse the expression) as smooth as possible.

 Talk it all through

 Before anything else, talk it through with your partner. For tips on how and when to break the topic, read the article “When should you introduce it in a relationship” but be sure to sit down and discuss it. It’s most likely to be more pleasurable for the guy, but that doesn’t mean it’s not fun for the lady, and there’s always the added delight of it being a little taboo and naughty. Work out what you’re both getting out of it, and start getting each other excited.

 This goes doubly during anal sex – communicate your desires at all times; make sure you’re both comfortable and enjoying it.

 Preparation

 Not to put it too bluntly, but ladies: go to the bathroom if you need to clear space. Also don’t be afraid to widen things with butt plugs or fingers before the main event. Make it part of the foreplay if that kind of thing turns you on. The more aroused and comfortable you are, the more fun it’s going to be.

 And both parties should give themselves a very good clean; hygiene is even more important for anal sex. Be sure not to go from vagina to anus (1or vice versa) during intercourse – stick to one or the other to avoid complications or infections.

 Relax!

 This is primarily for the lady: spend some real time loosening yourself up. This will make your anal muscles looser and more accommodating. Try tightening them up as tight as you can, then loosening them and noticing the difference. Relax your mind, too – the less tense your whole body is, the better the whole experience will be.

 Lube, lube, lube

 This is an absolute must; anal sex can be an uncomfortable experience for both parties, depending on the size of the orifice and the tool. Plus, the anus won’t provide its own lubricant like the vagina, so be sure to bring lots of your own. Use water-based.

 Protection

 Condoms are highly recommended – this can be a less clean experience than vaginal intercourse, so be sure to be fully protected. And take it slowly; cover your member and the anus with plenty of lube, and take your time when inserting – as a first time, it’s likely to be very tight, and potentially painful, so be respectful of your couple’s situation to ensure everything’s as enjoyable as possible.

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