These aren’t your run-of-the-mill sex tips; these are specifically anal sex tips to help you get primed for backdoor action so that you can stop thinking about it (1we know that you have been!) and finally start doing.

Preparing for anal sex can be a little tricky. This is the butt we’re talking about after all and some people were raised to believe that the bum is dirty and no place for your fingers or anything else for that matter. The first thing you’re going to need is a willing partner and this willing partner will also need to be a relaxed partner if you want things to go, well, smoothly.

One of the best anal sex tips for men that we can possibly give is to be patient because this ain’tsomethin’ that you can rush—not safely anyway! Next, the receiver needs to be as aroused as possible so be prepared to engage in a lot of foreplay beforehand. Arousal will make for a more relaxed sphincter which is extremely important. And of course, you’re going to need lube—lots of it. There are several kinds of lubes available that are made specifically for anal sex so you may wanna opt for this kind when you’re an anal play newbie. They tend to be a little thicker and some even contain desensitizing properties to help with the ‘ouch factor’.

The next step in preparing for anal sex is to start off slow and small. This means using a finger or small anal sex toy and moving slowly as you make your way in. Start off with just teasing and stimulating the anus for a bit and then carefully begin to make your way inside. Make sure you stop if there’s pain and then be even more careful. The last thing you wanna do is scare your partner so they very literally close up to the idea of trying anal sex of any kind! Once you’ve managed to successfully penetrate your partner anally using a finger or sex toy, it’s time to move onto the penis. Again, you’ll need LOTS of lube so be sure to use it on both of you for more sliding power. If you or your partner can continue genital stimulation as you enter them from behind, it’ll be a lot easier and a lot more pleasurable. Now you’re good to go!

Anal Sex Tips Roundup

• Be sure that your partner is up for it.
• Be patient! No bum-rushing!
• Foreplay is a must to get them in the mood and help the sphincter relax.
• Use lots of anal lube! (1This is the best sex tip you’ll ever get!)
• Take it slow and easy every step of the way…unless they beg otherwise, of course.

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